We teach girls to shrink themselves, to make themselves smaller. We say to girls, ‘You can have ambition, but not too much. You should aim to be successful, but not too successful. Otherwise you will threaten the man.’ Because I am female, I am expected to aspire to marriage. I am expected to make my life choices always keeping in mind that marriage is the most important. Now marriage can be a source of joy and love and mutual support. But why do we teach girls to aspire to marriage and we don’t teach boys the same? We raise girls to see each other as competitors – not for jobs or for accomplishments, which I think can be a good thing, but for the attention of men. We teach girls that they cannot be sexual beings in the way that boys are.(x)
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the ultimate breakup mix
01. black widow - iggy azalea ft. rita ora | 02. problem - ariana grande ft. iggy azalea | 03. tonight i’m getting over you - carly rae jepsen | 04. really don’t care - demi lovato ft. cher lloyd | 05. potential breakup song - aly & aj | 06. gives you hell - all american rejects | 07. 7 things - miley cyrus | 08. take a bow - rihanna | 09. womanizer - britney spears | 10. two more lonely people - miley cyrus | 11. don’t cha - pussycat dolls | 12. hollaback girl - gwen stefani | 13. fuck you - cee lo green | 14. goodbye - kristina debarge | + listen | + design inspo
"You can’t kill an idea with bombs."
i don’t actually hate people it just exhausts me being around them for extended periods of time even my friends it’s nothing personal i just actually like being by myself yo
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constantly torn between “if it’s meant to be, it will be” and “if you want it, go get it”